Majority of people in this world will have at least once a weeding ceremony in their life. A marriage is an important step of life that humans choose to continue their existence. Therefore it has become the human agenda and become a pattern of living for society in any circumstances. In fact it is a probability of million scenarios which a person can select and ideally it is driven 100% by the intention.
A person who is driven by 100% the intention to build a family will give all his effort to keep his family lives and gets along together and he will allocate time as much as he can for his family. Although several people get distracted in life, they shift their focus to something else, and finally they abandon their family, but a marriage without intention will have more probability to get divorce than a marriage with intention from both sides.
In most of community which implement traditional values will force young people in their society to follow the norm and rules which have internalized. They are strongly suggested to get married in certain age and if they don’t have a person to whom they will be married, this community will held the social activities to enforce the relationship and ensure their child are being matched with the person who meet their standard and criteria. This kind of environment has created a mechanism of living and eliminated the fact that marriage is an option in life.
Every choice has its consequences and every people have his right to choose. The role as grandparent, parent, child, sibling, relative, or friend has its own responsibility, but it must not force and eliminate the options that a mature person has such as, marriage, job, career, hobby, opinion, and religion, because human has been created to make his own decision and to have his own life which is driven by his vision that can keep their life alive.
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